i've BUILT SOME UNITS IN A CUSTOMERS DINING ROOM AND SHE WANTS THE NEW WOOD STAINED LIKE THE FURNITURE SHE HAS BROUGHT.ITS SUPPOSED TO BE OAK BUT ITS JUST A CHEAP PINE THATS STAINED TO LOOK LIKE OAK!.IVE TRIED SEVERAL DIFFERENT COLOURS BUT THE WHITE PINE JUST doesnt STAIN THE SAME.ALSO TRIED DISSTRESSING NEW WOOD WITH BLACK BEFORE STAINING BUT NOT RIGHT FINISH ANYONE GOT ANY IDEAS? I'VE GOT THE CLOSEST COLOUR MATCH BUT NEED TO AGE/DISSTRESS BEFORE STAINING?